Before I Knew Where the Path Would Lead: I Got Drop-Kicked Across the Threshold
In March 2014, during my second term at Vancouver School of Theology, I wrote a long email to Virginia Ramey Mollenkott, whose book Omnigender had recently come to my attention. I had entered theological studies unexpectedly. Only a year earlier, while struggling with severe underemployment after nearly four decades as a graphic designer, a friend had asked me a deceptively simple question: “If money were no object, what work would you most want to do?” The answer that came to me seemed so presumptuous that I was almost embarrassed to say it aloud: I wanted to become a chaplain to the transgender community. By the time I wrote to Virginia, one closed door had given way to another that seemed to open impossibly wide. I was back in school after forty-two years, studying theology and preparing for clinical pastoral education. At the same time, I was trying to find language for theological insights that had first emerged during the private and often painful spiritual journey sur...