It Was Complicated
As Pride Month comes around again, I am reminded about how dismissive I was for so many years because it made me uncomfortable. I think it had to do with how I saw gender-variant people were treated, which I internalized. It all had to do with my own insecurities. Long before “transgender” became part of everyday language, society had already turned people like us into entertainment. Jerry Springer once claimed that some of the highest-rated episodes his show ever aired featured transsexuals, drag queens, cross-dressers, whatever terminology was being used at the time. People watched by the millions, apparently. But those shows rarely treated trans people with dignity. The audience was expected and encouraged to react to the spectacle, not listen to the human story underneath it. Behind the makeup and sensationalism were often stories that went unheard. That’s part of the irony I can’t stop thinking about now when I hear people complain that trans identities are being “shoved down...